“I should have been further along by now.” That thought used to haunt me. Honestly, I used to think by now I’d be a “well-established adult.” A big career. A Pinterest-worthy home. A savings account that doesn’t make me wince. Instead, I have Oreo crumbs in my bed, a toddler …
I’m Re-Parenting Myself While Raising My Kids
There was a time I didn’t think I’d ever become a parent.because, deep down, I believed children were burdens, just like I was once made to feel. But life has a funny way of opening portals you didn’t expect. When I found out I was pregnant with my first baby …
Screen Time = Quality Time?: A Balanced Approach to Family Gaming
Everyone is constantly warning us about too much screen time, being a modern parent (especially one who loves gaming) can feel like walking a tightrope. Add a newborn who’s a velcro baby (yes, I said it!), a toddler bouncing off walls, and a tween who craves real connection out of …
Mental Hygiene: Self-Care is Not a Side Quest
Let’s get one thing straight:Self-care doesn’t have to be a spa day, a luxury retreat, or an overpriced bubble bath. It doesn’t have to be glamorous or Instagrammable.Sometimes, it’s hiding in your closet and shutting the door like you’re sealing yourself in a magical portal… just for five sacred minutes. …
Surviving the Influenza Apocalypse: A Week of Chaos with a Newborn, Toddler, and Tween
Let me paint you a picture. It’s 2 a.m. The baby is cluster feeding (again), latching on my hung-out boobie. My toddler is screaming from a night terror episode (again). My tween is coughing and missing yet another day of school. The house smells faintly of unscooped cat litter. My …
Co-Op Parenting: How My Partner and I Manage the Chaos Together
Parenting is easily the most challenging multiplayer game I’ve ever attempted—no pause button ⏯️, constantly changing rules, and difficulty levels that spike without warning. But like any good co-op game, having the right partner can make all the difference between barely surviving and actually thriving. Here’s how we split the …
Game Night Wins: How Family Gaming Strengthens Our Bond
In our home, game day/night is more than just a pastime – it’s our weekly ritual of laughter, teamwork, competition, and connection. While others might gather around for board games or movie night, we reach for our Joy-Cons and power up the Nintendo Switch. From Super Mario Party Jamboree to …
Parenting XP: How Gaming is (almost like) Raising Kids 👨👩👧👦
If there’s one thing gaming has taught me, it’s that leveling up takes time, effort, and a lot of grinding. And if there’s one thing parenting has taught me, it’s… pretty much the same thing, but without the ability to log off. 😅 Back in the day, I was a …
A Day in the My Life as a Parent: Boss Level Edition 🎮
Ever wondered what it’s like to juggle parenting, a full-time job, household chores, and grad school, all while growing a tiny human inside you? Well, buckle up, because this is Boss Level Parenting—where the stakes are high, sleep is low, and snacks are a lifeline. 🌅 Level 1: The Early …
